discussion comment
12 years ago
once you have reached the level where you are considered someones "regular", you are pretty much screwed, until she is not around or you start going to another club. Best way to handle this is not to get into that situation in the first place. I used to do that all the time and it was nice because whenever I would go in the club, she would come over almost immediately. But of course, the downside is no matter how hot she is, eventually you will see something else you want. So now, when I go in, I will get a few dances from someone I like, maybe chat and be friendly, then move on to another the same night. If you establish that 1) you have money to spend and 2) you spend it on different girls and 3) you are friendly and enjoyable to hang with than you keep that situation from happening in the first place and you can still get dances from who you want, even the same girls you did on other nights. But once you take the approach of "I am taking care of you and only you for the next few hours" and you give her a reason to think its exclusive, it can be virtually impossible to back out of that without a lot of backlash. Easier said than done I know, especially when you see someone SOOO hot you want to monopolize her.