Comments by bigmatt1980

@biggb011 -- the fact that you can compare a dance to sex is evidence that either you chose the wrong one... or that you're a bit closed minded. Not sure which, but there is definitely a problem if that comparison can be made with any accuracy.

My experience was a great one. She had an issue with me dancing with anyone else, but then again I didn't want anyone but her anyway. And she explained it very well... she has to work with those people. They do it for a job, I do it for enjoyment. If I get a dance from a random chick at another club then she doesn't have to see them every single night thereafter. It makes a lot of sense. Granted, I have gotten to know a lot of other dancers as a result of being with my girl, and I must say... aside from maybe one or two others (out of over 100...) it is a very bad idea to ever consider dating them. Whatever she will do with you before knowing you well... she will do for anyone else too. You weren't special until you started dating.. and in some cases not even then. I got EXTREMELY lucky in my choice so I can't say never do it ever... BUT... definitely approach that type of relationship with EXTREME caution. Remember that most girls in there are sharks. They are skilled in telling you what you want to hear. So just be extra sure you know what you're getting into.