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I respect your opinion, and obviously, it is a result of real-life experience. Thankfully, I can say I wasn't a part of it. I can't pretend to know how I will be percieved. All I can do is take your insights into advisement, which I believe means I need to "observe and follow the unspoken rules" of the club. I guess that means not being an a*hole to the guys, not expecting or seizing opportunity for extra attention. What more can I do? Not much. I can't tell you I will date guys that go there anymore than you can say you would date any stripper (or female customer) that you meet. All I can do is try to be an exception. In the end, all I want is what most customers want; fun and entertainment. Thanks again for your insights.

Harry, thnx for watching my back. Not entirely necessary, but I do appreciate the consideration, really I do. I am familiar with the lifestyle. Thnx again for the feedback and suggestion.

Great suggestion! I would consider going with a woman; bi or gay, or stipper. Message me and I will tell you the general vicinity, and we can discuss further! PLS, don't bother to start the conversation if you are NOT a woman. In the end, I'd find out, anyway, so what's the sense, right? TY!!!! Happy clubbing to all.

Great suggestion. I will do that. You're right; I should set the tone right up front. Appreciate the advice, if anyone else has any.

Thanks for replies. I am female, so I guess I should have mentioned that. I am aware that I need to not look like the dancers. That's no problem. I don't mind talking with the guys. In fact, I think that part of it will be fun. I'm just a little apprehensive about getting the message across that I'm nbot there to provide entertainment; just to enjoy myself, just like any of the guys, so I don't really want any one to get to pushy with me; if you know what I mean. The girls got the bouncer, but their not there for me, so I am just wondering what you all think. Thnx.