IceHot

It depends on the club and if you are a regular. have you tried tipping the DJ. One 5$ tip for multiple songs can sometimes be worth it.

I always tell them straight up... "I am waiting for another dancer." If they latch on anyway...the best out is to watch other dancers at the stage, when you find one you like, go up and tip the one you like. This always works...the dancer might chit-chat a little longer, but she wont stay much longer. Most women understand that different guys have different tastes, and they will move onto some guy who pitties them or finds their conversation interesting or who just likes their type.