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12 years ago
Thanks for sharing, man. Agree with all the comments but I would just add that I think its a myth that all dancers only want your money. I started going to strip clubs when I was your age and have been fortunate enough to meet a handful of dancers where we took the fun outside the club (not for pay, by the way). Everything from a quick one-time hook-up to a more regular thing to some light dating. When people state that myth, I remind them that strippers are not some other species- they are just girls.. and just like "regular" girls are meeting people at work, why would strippers be any different? They're not. I'm not saying it should be your goal to go out with strippers and maybe you have no interest but its completely doable. Sure, a lot of them do have baggage but, on average, I haven't found them to be any crazier than other girls. Regarding the comment about the clubs ruining your social skills, in a weird way the opposite *might* even be true. At the club, all these gorgeous virtually naked girls *approach you* and start conversing. So different than the awkwardness of approaching a woman in public. So, I wonder if the club dynamic might even help some guys be more confident when they are out in the "real world" and give them practice talking to attractive girls in an environment where they are not really putting themselves out there..? Anyway, enjoy. Relationships can be great if you find a quality girl who you are compatible with. But a lot of the time, dating is a complete circus. I'd rather chill at the clubs than be in a bad relationship, for sure.