topcat2

1 About 1/2 do see customers outside. It's still business so an appropriate gift is generally expected. 2. Don't servers in a resturant and small business owners treat regular customers as friends. Would you accuse them of fraud if they refused to go out with you. 3. If you want to see a dancer outside you have to get to know her at work, let her know enough about you so she is comfortable you are not a stalker or worse. Most important you have to be someone they would enjoy being with. 4 Dancers are probally the most difficult of all women to date. Think about the competion and the lines they here every day.

This is one of sadest and most pathetic postings I have ever seen. The attitude explains why she thinks of the customer this way. It works both ways if you treat people without respect and use them expect to get the same in return. I see dancers in and out of work the tend to be the best gromed, attractive and conversational women you can find. The biggest risk is that after dating dancers you have trouble finding other women who measure up. I don't even get a dance from the ones who treat me like an ATM. It is a job and the dancer deserves to be paid for her time and the quality of what she offers her customers.

Every person and every situation. I have dated a number of dancers and when I am seeing one outside work I dance with her exclusively at work. If unattached I try several dancers in an evening. The fact that dancers make there living by what they get from coustomers should not surprise anyone. I have known many dancers who do like their regular coustomers, having a dancer friend is not difficult as long as both remember it is also her job.