Comments by havingfuninde

Mark - We (my husband and I) recommend you try a swing club in lieu of a strip club. There are many clubs in the NJ, PA, NY area. If your wife likes touching other women and being touched, that is the place to be for sure. We started out going to strip clubs but it got boring after awhile and we wanted more. Before you get the wrong idea it's nothing like you think. Swinger Clubs are no more than a very sexually charged club like any other with "benefits" if desired. There is never any pressure and you are free to do whatever you please. We have been attending swing clubs for about a year now and would not give it up for anything. If she likes to dress sexy, she can go all out at these clubs, and I mean ALL out. If she is bi-curious this is a very safe environment for her to explore those possibilities also (I did!). We have also met some of the nicest people at these clubs and have a whole new circle of friends. We have also attend strip clubs with some of these people and it can be lots of fun too. If you would like more information you can email us.

There are different kinds of swingers. Soft swap and full swap. Not all swingers go hog wild swapping partners. We are mostly soft swap. We enjoy the sexually charged atmosphere and some interaction with others, i.e. dirty dancing and touching and some other things when you're with the right people and everyone is on the same page. Just going to a swing club does not mean it's a big orgy pile. We have never been to Trapeze, but we do attend 3 on-premisis swing clubs and various off-premises clubs and meet and greets regularly. Dragman - apparently you have no idea what you are talking about. Most swingers are couples that are very secure in their relationships - some married for 20-30 years. In fact, if you are not secure in your relationship then swinging isn't for you. People have such a misconception of swinging. Don't preach on a subject that you know nothing about or have never experienced. Fondl - as for high class clubs, swing clubs are actually very cheap. They are usually BYOB with a fee for the "party". We have gone to clubs and paid anywhere from $50 to $100 a party. That included food (sometimes a full meal), D.J., party favors, full use of the facilities, i.e. hot tub, rooms, etc. I'd like to see you go to a strip club and come away as satisfied for the same amount of money!