Guys who don't do VIP

Speaking for myself - I generally always do a VIP, but I do have friends who rarely do and the reason is always cost. The "tips" some girls ask for are kind of crazy, especially here in the northeast. I suspect that would be most people's reason.

Expensive, paid sex, in a small uncomfortable room for 15 minutes fails for me due to cost, comfort; length of sexual experience and enjoyment of sexual experience. Simply put I would rather get jazzed up with lap dances and have sex with my wife, who at the worst is top 1% lifetime for bjs. 10x better now than in 1990.

I only really take white girls to VIP here. Easier to communicate your VIP expectations and costs than someone with a language barrier.

If you're familiar with this club's demographic makeup you'd know this means there's not often an opportunity for me to VIP here. But the $10 lappers make for a nice cheap LDK if not!

If you live long enough, it's common that you can't do what's only done in VIP. Also get's more difficult for the little guy to stand at attention in a raincoat.

When asking why guys do not pay for a VIP experience, you might want to consider for a moment that probably ninety five percent of adult males do not even go to strip clubs on a regular basis. They would just rather be spending their money on something else. So for guys who do go to strip clubs regularly but do not pay for a VIP experience the same thing is likely true, they just want to spend that money on something else instead. My strip club hobby has turned into a once a month visit where I buy a beer, watch the girls dance on stage and buy a couple lap dances so I can talk to and have a little physical contact with a young attractive female. What people value is somewhat subjective and different people rank what they value differently. In my case, as I get older I come to value some things more and some things less.

I love to drink beer and party with hot, young, sexy, naked women. I love to grab tits, smack asses, and rub my hands along smooth pins and flat stomachs. I do not want or need to pay hundreds of dollars for 15-30 minutes in a filthy, cramped, closet for sex with a condom. Married life has spoiled me. My wife is still a wildcat, and hours-long bareback sex with her has never been matched by anyone else. I just happen to be an irredeemable pervert who loves sexy naked women.

So many people responding like it's a general question when it's specifically about Vivide lmao

I was there yesterday and didn't do a VIP. All of the dancers were Cuban except on 1 white girl that weighed more than I do. I don't like doing VIP with Cubans because they hardly speak any English which has led to 2 bad experiences. So I just settled for some lap dances.

I’m not against doing VIP and have done it a couple times with women who were gorgeous 9s in my book and gave me GFE (kissing, raging hard on, stick shifting, foreplay)during lap dances that sold me. Those experiences are few and far between for me now, maybe because I’m not as sexually attractive to the dancer as I was 20 years ago. Now I’m more in line with docsavage and Oneandonly.

Sounds like I should check out Vivide next time I'm in ATL to see a Warriors/Hawkeyes game.