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It's understandable that a new stripper wouldn't be able to finish her first shift, cause we're more nasty and she's more disgusted by us touching her than she thought she would be. But it seems odd she'd feel positive about lap dancing while she was doing it, but have strong negative feelings only after she left the club. She doesn't mention being drunk and then sobering up. Could it be there are still significant numbers of younger women who were brought up being told good girls see sex as a duty to their husbands, and men who want sex outside marriage are nasty?
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During her shift, she was probably getting caught up in the moment, so to speak. The "now" was probably strong enough to push down and out any of the disgust she would've felt doing the same thing any place else, and when she left at the end of her shift, other than a handful of cash, all of that immediate reward was gone and all of that disgust could just bubble on up. If she really feels that she needs to do this and survive emotionally, she'll probably have to pace herself somehow to build up those walls to tolerate the job.
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