NYC strip club Question

You tip her.

I avoid NYC strip clubs, but generally you should be able to have 5 minutes of conversation before she asks if you want a dance or bolts. If the place is busy and she's attractive, it's more likely she'll ask you first, which is her prerogative. If you really like her, keep in mind that if you turn her down or stall it could be your last chance with her for that visit.

There is no hard rule on this. It’s really, “what’s do I want” at that moment. Do I want to talk? Or get LDs?

Then you adjust for day and time of the visit. Don’t expect any conversation on a Friday or Saturday night when the club is packed. Sunday to Wednesday, 20 min to an hour is not out of the question.

You dont need to buy a drink. Some dancers will spend 10, 15 minutes or even more trying to sell you dances.

Never been to an NYC club. In general, if you want a free side of chat with your T&A, go when the club is slow. What are you looking for them to say that takes 5 minutes? My take is, if she looks good to me, and she can walk up to me in Pleasers without RBF, what more could I ask for?
Why do we still need strippers to be chatbots when ChatGPT is now available?
I don't believe in Hell, but just in case, I try not to earn myself a spot there. I'd always much rather tip a stripper than buy her booze. One of the worst things about the job is the risk of alcohol dependency.

Never assume how a stripper will or should do her job. If you approach a stripper and talk for 5 minutes or 50 minutes, you are under no obligation to buy her a drink, give her a tip or buy a dance. If she doesn't want to talk, she will walk away; if she wants a drink, she'll ask for one; if she wants to sell a dance, she'll let you know; if she wants a tip, she'll ask for one. Have fun, but you are under no obligation.