Are you guys blunt with the girls before getting extras? Do you ask directly before you get “dances”, “Will you be riding my dick?” “Will you give me a HJ?” “Will you give me a BJ?”
My extras girls just do it, I don’t even have to ask.
However, I feel it saves a lot of time and money, especially if you’re going to be investing a significant amount of money taking her to VIP. Share your thoughts.
I usually do my research before I go with them. Occasionally, I'll take one for the team.
If I'm with a girl that I don't know, I'm want to be sure exactly what is gonna happen if I pony up for the VIP price. My normal line to the dancer is " What exactly is on the menu if we go to the back ? " She's gonna know what I"m asking.
I’m direct. She knows that we’re sleazebags, she won’t be offended. If she’s willing she will say so, otherwise she’ll appreciate not dealing with it.
Things I've said:
"Can we fool around?"
"Can I suck?"
"Will you suck it?"
I ask how much? and ask will you do this or that? And I'm willing to pay a tip for this or that.
@jascoi: Asking how much is a good question.
I approach in a bit of different manner. I ask "what are your rules/limits?". You gather similar information. It's often simply, "nothing in my pussy or ass".
You cant straight up ask every dancer the first time you meet. It depends on the club culture