LDK should be classified as an extra @founder

You make a point. But still it all depends on your sensitivity.

30 years ago when I was in my 40s, LDK could happen. Has not happened since. It actually sucks.

What if it’s not intentional?

I prefer the dancers that think of it as an expectation. If you don't lose your load, then they feel like they didn't do their job right.

ww: I’m referring to intentional LDK. She’s trying to get you off, may even ask “did you cum?” or will know when you cum.

Warrior: I love these lovely ladies

If she really wanted to get you off, she should whip it out haha.

But no. I don't think intentional LDK should count. Extras are all things that legally a dancer shouldn't be doing. Whereas grinding to completion is not only legal, but is what even people who don't frequent SCs expect a dancer to do. Bare minimum.

OP asked for a ruling. My take on LDK is anytime bodily fluids are exchanged, by definition should be an extra.

Too many variables for me to consider that an extra, but if a dancer was able to make it happen I’d definitely tip her for it.

But whats the point of debating whether it is an extra or not. Is it related to some policy regarding reviews… otherwise its a semantics discussion

I think it is an extra in that its beyond a standard lapdance, but i dont think its an extra that requires extra payment. If it takes you for instance 15 minutes, 20 minutes or even more to LDK, thats already like $150+ in dance prices alone. And if your paying more than $150 for just an LDK or even a HJ your seriously getting ripped off.

There’s good “lovely ladies” out there that’ll have you finished in 3 songs. $60 total.

Not at any clubs near me. Lap dances are now 40 per ding, some dancers will do 3 for 100… and mileage definitely varies.

Stop using LDK. Problemed solved.

Rarely is a hand not in my shorts on my visits, so like Warrior said, its pretty much expected

This guy fucks^

When lap dances first became a thing in Philly, I was in my late 20s and would LDK practically every time. Amazing! Now I couldn’t LDK if my life depended on it.

LDK is an outcome of an activity (sometimes an "extra" activity; other times, simply from a good grind), not an "extra".

LDK is not an extra, unless perhaps negotiated between the two parties, and there are multiple dances, (and both parties are intentionally trying for it.)