Life Lessons Learned In The Strip Club

There is an Isaac Asimov quote that is something along the lines of education is something you cannot finish... (an ongoing process, as there is always more to learn)

I would be inclined to agree.

I'm of the mind that learning and life lessons are all around, encountered daily, for those who have their antenna up and receptors on.

I have encountered life lessons at the strip club.

I was in a town I had never been to before for a concert, Brian Setzer, rockabilly musician, if you remember the '80s, you might remember the Stray Cats...that guy.

Afterwards, I decided to check out a strip club. I was only a couple months into this hobby.

Didn't have the awareness I have now, so I was going in semi-blind.

One stripper really caught my eye, a good looking medium thick blonde who went fully nude.

This woman had an absolutely beautiful pussy, plumb, luscious, symmetrical and smooth.

I am sitting on perv row, tipping her, and she's spreading it, giving me a nice view.

There are two couples sitting up front, and she went up to both of them, put one leg on the man's shoulder, one leg on the woman's shoulder, and proceeded to ram her pussy into the woman's face.

This was hands down the hottest thing I've ever seen in a strip club.

I approach, we later meet by the ATM, and we make our way to the lap dance area, which are individual booths, each behind a curtain. This lends itself to greater privacy...and this wasn't even the v.i.p.

As soon as we are behind the curtain she said "Now it's my turn to get hot and horny."

She then offered "a handy and some head and some kissing" for her set price.

It was within my budget, but I didn't make another trip to the ATM. I had already made two withdrawals that night, and I thought it would lock up my card with another withdrawal. ( That had happened before.)

I should have made another withdrawal and took the chance.

Her dance was enjoyable, I was super turned on. I was hard, fully erect, she enthusiastically rubbed between my legs.

I had never encountered the stripper's handshake from a dancer before that night.

I hug her and tell her I'll come back sometime and see her. Her parting words are "We'll have fun."

I came back nine months later, and she is no longer there.

One thing about this hobby...

The high turn over rate of dancers, the way they come and go, and sometimes, often come back, so acting sooner than later becomes essential, but also if a dancer that you were interested in leaves, move on to finding someone new, the environment facilitates that.

Life lessons that stick are often the ones we learn the hardway.

This club was in another part of the state that I wasn't usually in. I was spending time in a club closer or closest to home, in pursuit of a dancer that led me on a wild goose chase for almost an entire year, no extras action at all.

Lessons learned...

1. In waiting too long, opportunities can slip through your hands. A door that's open at one point will not always be open.

2. If there is a sure thing in your life, move towards the sure thing, as opposed to something else that is iffy or unlikely, but you would like to happen.