Stripper intimacy

Yes, it's possible she got something out of being with you besides the money. Maybe it's the first time ever that's happened to her with a customer. Or maybe it was the first time that night. Getting sweet on someone is always a risk, but it's a risk most people choose to take from time to time. But the risk is much greater with sex workers, since the occupation strongly tends to make someone cynical about romance. The golden rule with sex workers is, only give them money for something that's already happened, or something that is immediately about to happen. The more she tells you or hints that giving her more money will get her sweet on you, the more likely it is she is not actually sweet on you, and never will be.

I'd worry about be grifted and hustled.

The Cubans I know all say "que rico". The white girls just say that I am adequate.

If you assume the dancer with whom you are spending time is not being genuine, you won't be right all the time, just 99.9999% of the time.

You could always meet her at a hotel instead. Somewhere maybe where you’d meet her in the lobby and escort her up to your room.

Be careful, in the past I’ve known guys that have a girl come to their hotel room and they would get jumped when they open the door. Guy(s) hiding outside of view from the peephole when they open the door to greet the girl.

You want to know if she's being genuine, or if she simply wants your money. They can both be true, to a point. Successful strippers are good at finding something about you that's true, and then complimenting you about it. In this case it's your dick, so she's not necessarily full of crap. The most likely scenario is that she she's you as someone who's safe and inoffensive. You've passed the tolerability test and can move up to the next level. Her proposed night of fun is legit, but you're still just a payday for her.

It could be legit. But know that this is rare. You need to spend some more time with her ITC before taking the risk on OTC. Did you get her number? Does she text you outside of the club with mundane things like “how’s your day going?” Set up some appointment ITC meetings to get a sense of her reliability. If she continues to show genuine interest and doesn’t flake out on you ITC, and you get to know her a little through texts, then you might want to take her up on her OTC offer, but spend the money on a decent hotel. Don’t bring her to your home and don’t meet her at any of the crappy nearby motels in Pompano. Many of the South Florida OTC providers and escorts use the Hard Rock (guitar) Hotel, or the Hollywood Diplomat Hotel at the beach. These are going to cost you $300 per night, but if she’s familiar with either of these hotels, she’s more likely to be legit. Let us know how it goes!

@iknowbetter she gave me her number and was texting me up until her shift ended, thats when I just stopped answering. The Hard Rock is a good idea I just hate the price. I contemplated getting a room and bringing her there but opted to just go to sleep.

^ The correct call.

If you're single, why don't you want her to come to your place?

So how big is your dick? If you're less than 9 inches she's bullshitting you. No doubt she's had black guys, so she's seen horse cocks before. Your question was "is she being genuine"? I'd say yes, she genuinely would like you to pay her $400.

It's like you signed up just to humblebrag about your size lmao.

First of all, don't take her back to your house. Get a hotel room. Second, you may be well-endowed but I think dancers just know guys like it when you compliment their dick size.

I take everything a stripper says with a grain of salt. But that doesn't mean you can't reap the rewards.

@pussylicker2 she kept telling me about how she liked my skin color and kept saying the guys who come into the club have darker skin and she thinks their dicks are gross. Almost made me uncomfortable how openly racist she was being, and I would consider myself a pretty staunch racist. I've known white Cubans to be like this but I was taken aback.

@pawg_patrol I signed up so I didnt get scammed at the club. I only posted cause I wanted to know what her deal was, I can't exactly go up to my friends and ask them something like this.

@ilbbaicnl I dont wanna get robbed or setup, I'd be more comfortable in a hotel.

From the TUSCL glossary: Stripper Shit Anything a stripper tells you to separate you from your money. This could range from "My car broke down" to "My boyfriend doesn't fuck me anymore" to "My, you have a huge cock" to "Do you work out a lot" to "You've got beautiful eyes." Good luck sorting it out. The good strippers are masters at this.

@gammanu95 yea it's really hard to tell with these girls. I feel like the general rule is if you get the compliment in real life it could be genuine when a dancer says it?

Her name Irene? Might have seen her there.

@roofy That's not the name she gave me

@Buddy9988

I will play along and comment on your discussion.

First of all Pics and Vids of the Beautiful and Bubbly Cuban Girl or it didn’t happen.

:D

Good Times, Good Times.

Second of all to answer your questions:

Q: was she being genuine? Yes, generally interested in getting $400 out of you in exchange for a night of sex.

Q: Is that common dancer behavior? No, dancers behavior is unique to each of them.

Q: Is it possible for a stripper to enjoy sex ITC? Yes, it is possible for women to enjoy sex. Most women from other countries and cultures enjoy sex.

Third of all; I would refer you to Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC) ~ Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.

1. We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure.
2. Concubines for the daily health of our bodies, and
3. Wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes

In this list is the Greek view of woman in the classic age and any age.

In today’s world Demosthenes would say:

We have:

1. High end escorts, centerfolds, actresses, models, Strippers (ITC OTC) etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses/Sugar Babies/Concubines; etc, for the daily health of our bodies.
3. Trophy Girlfriends/Wives to bear us lawful offspring, and be the faithful guardians of our homes.
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembots, and Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”.
5. Street walkers and crack whores for when you are horny, drunk, high, depressed, bipolar or just plain stupid and crazy, poor and miserable and can’t afford anything else.

It should be up to YOU, what role YOU want her to play in your life. After all you are the customer.

I would recommend to keep her as a courtesan/escort for the sake of pleasure for you and probably for her too, with minimum drama and complications.

And follow subraman advice for Strip Clubbing:

1. Don't be an asshole

2. Don't be a little bitch

This is the full Article:

tuscl.net

Also Remember that:

“In this country, you gotta make the money first.

Then when you get the money, you get the power.

Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”

~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface (1983)

Most of all don’t fall in love with her and let’s be careful out there.

Keep us informed of your progress on this journey.

@CJKent_band If you could find some pics and vids I'd like to see them too 😂.

Great reply, subraman's two rules were the first things I found here. I tried to apply those each time I've visited.

I'm gonna check out the scene tomorrow night at BT, maybe she'll be there maybe she won't. Either way I do quite enjoy the hobby and will start posting reviews soon 😆

Its hard to say because sex workers see a lot of dicks so theyre likely to also see bigger dicks. Plus guys with higher sex drive are more likely to be bigger. Although some guys see sex workers for fetish reasons not regular sex

But at the same time sex workers dont see as many young guys. Theres a lot less younger guys who can afford them and who seek them out. Even if she is complimenting the dick it could be your overall package, the fact your younger.

Also the racism and dislike of darker skin colors is extremely common in pretty much all non western countries. It is common amongst latina women too. Obviously the ones who grew up here are going to be different than a more foreign type of latina.

Even if you go to africa or india… they like lighter skin colors more. Even amongst their own people

I know a guy in his 60s who always gets complimented by latinas for his blue eyes

Also IMO $300 for 15 minutes is too much. Does she only keep half that money or something? On the other hand $400 for a full night OTC is a good deal.

If you dont have valuables in your house or can secure the valuables in a different room/safe etc.. i see no issue bringing her to your house.

@pussylicker2 the black guys big cock thing isnt a verified thing. Its a stereotype based on porn and pro sports. You dont see asians and Indians in porn and sports because their parents force them to go into engineering, IT, medicine etc. and you dont see latinos in them because theyre working labor jobs. Lol.

I do think diet and environment have a big effect on your D size though… so it makes sense that if you grow up eating beans or rice or soy… instead of meat and dairy, it could affect how you develop.
And theres probably a whole list of pharma drugs, medicines, even over the counter supplements that could affect your cock.

@buddy9988 they all enjoy the sex. Just like you would enjoy a HJ or BJ even if the chica is ugly…

Thats why a bunch of these american hoes wont kiss wont allow DATY or fingering and will try to get you off with HJ or BJ instead of sex. Some of them want to minimize their enjoyment with clients

@chunkychicano that makes sense, I never really took into consideration that they might not see that many younger guys. She was 29 she said.

I've never been with an American dancer and I've honestly never seen one. If I could find one as enthusiastic as these foreign girls I'd be willing to pay but I've heard that's rare. I've had an Italian and Colombian at the same at Rachels Palm Beach (both 9's, for the right guy 10's), and the rest Cubans down in Pompano. Rachels is not an extras club but they gave me a HJ and titfuck and danced like crazy. If Rachel's wasnt so expensive and offered extras I'd go more often.

Had many strippers come to my place (or gone to there place) over the years, never had a problem. Including one Cuban. But maybe it's more risky in Metro Miami. It's my impression that the ones who are setting you up tend to offer bargain rates, since they plan to rob you anyway.

@ilbbaicnl do they stay the night or only for like an hour when you get them to go to your house. I'm scared of these Miami girls in Pompano. I would bring home the girls at Rachels Palm Beach but they have never offered me OTC. They're probably making so much money ITC without real extras they don't need. VIP is $400 to the house $500 to the girl.

Sometimes 1 - 2 hours. Sometimes 5+ hours. A couple stayed overnight. One said she was just going to take a nap, but it turned out to be an 8 hour nap. With another, we lived about 90 minutes away from each other, and she occasionally was too tired to drive home till the next morning.

@ilbbaicnl when you get the whole night what do you do? Are you just getting FS the whole time whenever you want? just hanging out?

That 8 hour nap was 100% drug/ alcohol induced. They drink like sailors, that's something I wasn't aware if before I started going 😂

@Buddy9988 no, no all night FS my last name is not Siffredi. Like I said, they slept over cause they were tired. Neither was a terribly heavy drinker, both had young kids.

Hmmmm, BBBJ and OTC at BT? I need to try harder.

@sfrsox really? When was the last time you went?

It usually works out best if they like you about as much as your dentist does. It seems easier (than when I was young) to meet a woman whose attracted to you without expecting money from you. But, still hard to find one who's attracted to you but only wants sex from you.

If she likes you so much, and your giant cock, why don't you take her on a regular date, like for dinner. Then see how things unfold. The money question will come up eventually. If it doesn't, she's a keeper.

Chunkychicano- sorry, but you're wrong. If you get to know hookers well enough for them to be honest, they'll tell you. Black guys have the biggest dicks, whites are second, and Asians have the smallest. Even CHATGPT agrees (although it tries to minimize it to be politically correct).

@pussylicker2 if a hooker told you that it only applies to her very limited experience.

The funny thing is a huge proportion of hookers dont even meet with black men. So a hooker in all likelihood is probably a horrible candidate to pose this question to. Im curious how that convo even came up with this hooker you refer to? Some guys have cuckold fetishes and like being told this sort of stuff.

You would be better off finding a college sorority girl, who would probably have more experience with black guys than a hooker.

Even if there is some truth to it the real reason would be diet and environment- not really race. Asians being smaller on average can make sense considering their crazy diets in many asian countries