strip clubs as a bi woman

i'm 33 and a reasonably attractive bisexual woman who has recently enjoyed frequenting strip clubs with my boyfriend. He and i will go back sometimes for a private dance, but we always tell the stripper that it's just for me, and he's just there to watch. I have had shockingly good luck, the first time i ever went back the stripper put her tits in my mouth and started making out with me. Do strippers ever do "extras" with women at the club or are the mechanics so different that i'm better off with just trying to get them OTC?