….you THINK you’re on the same wavelength about VIP as the dancer you just met at a “50/50 shot at FS” club but you hadn’t exactly nailed expectations to the floor (“we’ll have a LOT of fun” can be ambiguous—it’s all in the delivery), and she excuses herself briefly as you head into the VIP and returns to quietly organize her wipes and a condom with a sweet smile on her face… …Priceless (well, not exactly, but worth it). But then I crap all over the experience by trying to one up it at a different club


Yeah the “itll be a lot of fun”, in some cases the girl doesnt want to get specific due to concerns about cops/legalities. But in many cases its just a way to be vague and not give an answer either way as far as which extras are available