Sorry if I end up posting this in the wrong spot, I'm new here! But I'm looking for some suggestions for the best couples-friendly club in North Jersey for a date night. The only Jersey club I've ever been to was the Harem a good 8 years ago, and even then it didn't strike me as the best place to go to on date night! Any recommendations? Thanks for any help I'm advance!
For couples my criteria would be, a party-like atmosphere, and a light non-intrusive $ parade. Platinum Dollz in Passaic, for Latinas. High Beams in Paterson, upstairs late weekends for mostly AA's. If you don't mind a hoover like suction sound operation, then Sunrise or Johnny A's could be on the list.
Thanks for the recommendation, Platinum Dollz is one of the ones I had been considering. I was really hoping to find a topless one but it looks like that's a rarity in this area and I'd have to go into Manhattan, which I'm not doing at all.
A few questions: any SC experience for your wife/GF/date? If far enough in the dating, when you two are in public and eye candy walks by, does she check it out with you or are you the guy that needs to pretend not to notice? Does she have any “female experience” or at minimum she is very good with watching girl-girl action during sex time? Those answers affect the next steps you take. Over the years I’ve got some experience taking the wife and then the GFs to a SC. I’d strongly recommend not fully nude especially if she is new to a SC, especially if she has no SC or “g/g” Experience. When the stripper is on stage and her legs are spread, there’s a surprisingly huge difference between that small strip of lace in place vs nude, especially to another female. You want a place that is certain! to be cleanly of the furniture, bathroom etc. Very obviously do not take her to a a place that has diehard TUSCLers getting handshakes or CBJs - a no extras place. Also, be sure it’s a 7-up club. My experience is women will be more critical of the strippers looks than men. A SC full of 4s will kill her mood. You should drive well out of your way if need be to find a SC like this. The first time at a SC for a female can be a great experience, make it a +1. Major advice/tips, no matter how cool she is with being at a SC, do not point out how incredibly hot one of the strippers, do not pick a favorite, do not have prolonged staring. Keep a lot of focus on her, her experience appears to be the best part of your night. (after she has a few drinks), let her pick her favorite — and now she’s your favorite too. Encourage her to pick if she’s reticent. Then try this, when she selects a favorite, excuse yourself to go the bathroom, find that stripper, tip her well to come to your table in a few minutes to ask your wife/gf/date if she could give her a dance. Don’t be cheap. Don’t need to act and spend like a whale but if she wants a 15 min VIP with the evening’s favorite, do it. Last tip, you’re her date but also escort and protector. Likely this is new to her and and may be intimidating. You’ll go a long way to make her have a good experience by opening the door for her, if the women’s bathroom is on the other side then escort her, in general she is certain you’re there to make everything ok. Best of luck.
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Platinum Dollz in Passaic, for Latinas. High Beams in Paterson, upstairs late weekends for mostly AA's.
If you don't mind a hoover like suction sound operation, then Sunrise or Johnny A's could be on the list.
Over the years I’ve got some experience taking the wife and then the GFs to a SC.
I’d strongly recommend not fully nude especially if she is new to a SC, especially if she has no SC or “g/g” Experience. When the stripper is on stage and her legs are spread, there’s a surprisingly huge difference between that small strip of lace in place vs nude, especially to another female. You want a place that is certain! to be cleanly of the furniture, bathroom etc. Very obviously do not take her to a a place that has diehard TUSCLers getting handshakes or CBJs - a no extras place. Also, be sure it’s a 7-up club. My experience is women will be more critical of the strippers looks than men. A SC full of 4s will kill her mood. You should drive well out of your way if need be to find a SC like this. The first time at a SC for a female can be a great experience, make it a +1.
Major advice/tips, no matter how cool she is with being at a SC, do not point out how incredibly hot one of the strippers, do not pick a favorite, do not have prolonged staring. Keep a lot of focus on her, her experience appears to be the best part of your night. (after she has a few drinks), let her pick her favorite — and now she’s your favorite too. Encourage her to pick if she’s reticent. Then try this, when she selects a favorite, excuse yourself to go the bathroom, find that stripper, tip her well to come to your table in a few minutes to ask your wife/gf/date if she could give her a dance.
Don’t be cheap. Don’t need to act and spend like a whale but if she wants a 15 min VIP with the evening’s favorite, do it.
Last tip, you’re her date but also escort and protector. Likely this is new to her and and may be intimidating. You’ll go a long way to make her have a good experience by opening the door for her, if the women’s bathroom is on the other side then escort her, in general she is certain you’re there to make everything ok.
Best of luck.