Still figuring this place out...

... and I’m not sure how to seal the deal, so to speak. First time I was there was early on a Saturday. Got a few dances downstairs, nothin seemed to be happening upstairs. About half the girls were very hands on, over the pants, but the other half would only grind on me Second time was a Monday night and I stayed almost to closing. Similar story as before. I’m looking for extras, either in pvt or at the end of the bar. So far I haven’t gotten into the left-most seat downstairs. Is that all it takes? I suppose I can just ask for a pvt, but literally no one else got one either time I was there. Not sure how to make the bar side action happen. Appreciate any pointers.