In my case, marriage was a gambit that there would be partnership. The gambit failed. Though I don't consider either my ex or myself to the the primary reasons for this. Once two people are married, then they are subjected to all manner of conformist pressure.
Also, marriage counseling just made it worse. But I for one would find it very hard to leave a spouse by the roadside of life, where I not able to cite my ex having made those two courses of marriage counseling completely ineffective, making them into screaming sessions.
India seems surprisingly willing, at least on the service, to attempt to correct their many fucked up ideas when the rest of the world starts pointing them out.
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unless based on a true love... marriage is usually an empty expensive experience.
Lots of easy ways to end a marriage. The difficult part is what happens to the man after it ends.
In my case, marriage was a gambit that there would be partnership. The gambit failed. Though I don't consider either my ex or myself to the the primary reasons for this. Once two people are married, then they are subjected to all manner of conformist pressure.
Also, marriage counseling just made it worse. But I for one would find it very hard to leave a spouse by the roadside of life, where I not able to cite my ex having made those two courses of marriage counseling completely ineffective, making them into screaming sessions.
SJG
I guess if you have 3 wives and divorce one, does she get 1/4 of everything now?