We are going to Vegas in a few weeks. He wants us to go together to a strip club. I think I will but a little nervous. What should I expect as far as girls coming up to me or him? I know it turns him on. He goes with buddies sometimes and then he comes home to me and I get the benefit.
I've never asked what goes on there. Can anyone give me the real deal?
Before my first visit to a strip club, I thought it might b some place with guys getting bj's or something but the club I went to had nothing of the sort. I was told to bring plenty of cash and ones to tip. I thought $50 was a lot of cash. Now I bring a lot more. Lap dances can cost 20 or 30 for just one single dance lasting only a few minutes. I always tip the girls at least two dollars at a time if I tip at all. You are expected to tip if you sit a the stage. You don't have to tip everyone. Ask the dancers what the rules are about touching etc. it shouldn't be a problem unless you are upset about going then it will be a problem for your spouse. Dancers will pick up on that and avoid you like the plague if that's the case. Tip some dancers yourself or with your husband if you both like someone. That lets a dancer know you are friendly and willing to spend. Some dancers will avoid couples anyway. Every dancer is after money. Some are nicer about it.
I'm not familiar with Las Vegas clubs and prces even though I've met some dancers and one model form there. I did hookup with the model but she flew back to Vegas next day.
A club in my area lets females in for free on one night. Couples often get charged double getting lap dances from one dancer I guess the argument goes she is dancing for two instead of one. If I ran a club, I might change that to one dance, one price unless you got two dancers. Strip clubs can cut songs short on announced specials and anyone could rip you off. On the other hand a bi dancer or lesbian dancer might really enjoy your company if the chemistry is right.
The Devil sucks your dick there
Better expect to approach any dancers that you are interested in because dancers tend to avoid couples, even in Vegas.
"Better expect to approach any dancers that you are interested in because dancers tend to avoid couples"
I've taken a date several times to a strip club and have seen the opposite effect - she was a chick magnet.
Strip clubs are a different animal and play by different rules - if a couple goes b/c it is the guy that likes to go, neither of them will usually have a good time - in cases where the woman is also into the girls then it can work out, but women that go b/c of their man usually doesn't work out as well
Follow the money --ATM withdrawals etc and you will know, unless your husband is a cash hoarder. If he is a regular and spends over thousand every time you can be fairly certain he wasn't only playing Santa with adult girls unless of course he was ripped of by fairies. Regular PL spends 200-600 and gets 12-15 dances and an offchance hj / bj. If you give the offchance benefit of doubt maybe its in the ballpark of pardonable (i am not sure if you don't like it) Also try checking if he carries sanitizer and condoms, a lot of experienced PLs are meticulous.
Last but not least, try checking if he's logged onto TUSCL himself, there is so much confession flying around here even Vatican would tremble. He's trying to bring you to SC because then he can very easily take leave of absence. I would suggest unless you are less than 35 don't go, act suspicious, vulnerable and crazy romantic and hope its casual and a phase in his life.
Once you go with him you have given your approval for him to find a third, unless of course you guys are understanding Or even you are looking for an affair. If you are in NYC or SF or other mega cities it doesn't matter, life and act are pretty much mixed.
^^^Why are you feeding this obviously jealous wioman a pile of shit , if she wants to go with her boyfriend what is your interest in making a problem for him? Maybe you need a lesson in MYOB.
If he's a veteran, he probably might have been settling up OTC behind your back. First you go to a SC and have a girl dance for you, then your hubby will arrange a threesome, then you will slowly fade to black.
^^^ 25 , i was just trying to say the truth. I hope the best for them. That said, sometimes if it is failing let it fail fast---its better for everyone involved.
He might just want to see you getting danced on, and getting titties rubbed in your face. I always quietly ask women if this is for her, or him, when I give a girl who is w a guy a dance. Usually, it's mostly for him, so I do the girl on girl show stuff for them. Most guys who go to the club I work at are just there for the fantasy, and not trying to get actual sex, or sex acts. I think your situation sounds more like when a guy wants a girl to watch porn w him.
@joc13 - it really depends on where you go. I like to mix up my visits between "upscale" and hole-in-the-wall places. Since I'm solo I don;r have much trouble getting attention. But in the few times that i have seen couples during my excursions it seems that the more "upscale" a club appears to be, the better success the couple has at getting dancer attention. The divey high mileage dumps tend to ignore couples more. I assume its because most mongers come in for the UHM and the dancers figure a couple isn't going to be looking for that (especially the girl part of the couple) so why bother approaching them.
Only your man can tell you what "He" does there. It's up to you whether you believe him or not.