Earning it?

well you never know what a woman is "really" thinking let alone a stripper, but imo they gave you that treatment because like they said to the other guys, you spend money on them so you're the one that gets the extras.

It never hurts to spend money if you want attention in a strip club, that's for sure.&nbsp; Being nice *while* spending money is just icing on the cake, as far as I've been able to determine.<br type="_moz" />

<p>St. James is a topless joint. Recently, a looker was shaking her thang on stage. Five guys tipped her, but myself and one other guy, she flashed gash at us.</p>
<p>It should be noted that I &quot;dress for success&quot; at a club, but some day laborers actually show up in their smelly long sleeve wool shirts, or T shirts.</p>

Steve, this would make a good discussion thread.

I agree completely with the Dancer. Treating them politely, &amp; with respect certainly helps. But spending $$$ is BETTER. I always come prepared to spend $$$.

Dancer here:<br />
Honestly, we like guys who treat us like people, and who realize that we only get paid in tips and dances, and who don't try to tell us how to do our jobs. Spending money is definitely a plus, and yes, it will get you attention, but what will get your farther is a good attitude (flattery helps too <img src="/editor/images/smiley/msn/wink_smile.gif" alt="" />)! <br />
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I definitely agree about &quot;earning it.&quot; It's not a free show. Most of us hate getting home at 4am, being overheated and sweaty all night, getting pole burns/bruises, and having guys constantly assuming that we're prostitutes on the side... and then when they don't have the decency to give us a nice tip for our hard work? That's just the worst!<br />
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So good for you, Steve! You sound like the type of customer we'd love to have over at Kuma's more often. :)<br type="_moz" />

Money's important but I really believe attitude determines mileage more than anything else.&nbsp; Two different dancers in two different states both made the comment of I was such a well-mannered customer (could be SS but&nbsp;I&nbsp;doubt it).&nbsp; After they said that they proceeded to give the two best lap dances I ever had.&nbsp; THe first one was in a topless club where I spent $60 on a two for one I had been talking to this dancer for a good 20-30 mins.&nbsp; Once I got in the chair she sat down on me grabbed my hands shoved them on her&nbsp;breasts and told me I could play with them for the whole song something had not happened in this club.&nbsp; THe other club was a nude club she made the comment of how because I was such a nice guy (almost surely SS in this case) she would come to my hotel.&nbsp; During the dance she made a point to show off her experience during her nine years&nbsp;dancing and I came very very close to cumming in my pants,only time that has happened.<br />
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Point: They're called GENTLEMEN'S CLUBS for a reason.