With this article being Valentine's Day topical I thought about sharing my experiences with giving a Dancer a Gift on Valentine's Day.
Giving a Dancer a Valentine's Day gift can go so many different ways. What one thing a lot forget or maybe not realize just because they dance for a living that doesn't mean they don't have a husband and/or Boy Friend. Yes some may even have Pimps. While you think it's a good idea to buy flowers, jewelry, or other large gifts the dancer is faced with Do I accept this gracefully or do they say they can't?
I won't go in to a ton of details but while at one club in my history I saw a club goer give flowers and the dancer tossed them because she knew she could never take them home or her fiance would have been pissed. It can be hurtful to the Club Goer thinking they had a really good idea but my advice is to ALWAYS Check with the dancer and make sure. Don't rush into anything if you really do have feelings for her and realize that this is her job and she still has another life at home. Other dancer will love the gift and in one case a dancer gave me a Bear to donate to charity because she got so many.
Now for me I am a bit different as you know, I'd rather take the girl shopping and let her pick out something she likes. Flowers are pretty but they die. If you buy a Necklace, Earrings etc you need to make sure that those are her style. That GIANT Bear in the store may look nice but if she doesn't like it or want it Don't get it. Ben Franklin is always a nice gift too even if you bring a twin. I have also been given gifts which at first I thought was odd but then it was pretty cool and to this day I still have one very special gift that I will cherish forever because of the meaning behind it when it was given to me a very long time ago.
Just some friendly advice before the Big Day.
Mr. King, shut the fuck up! No cause for dumping on people like that. No on is forcing your to read any posts you don't want to read.
SJG