Valentine
DFreshPalace
California
With this article being Valentine's Day topical I thought about sharing my experiences with giving a Dancer a Gift on Valentine's Day.
Giving a Dancer a Valentine's Day gift can go so many different ways. What one thing a lot forget or maybe not realize just because they dance for a living that doesn't mean they don't have a husband and/or Boy Friend. Yes some may even have Pimps. While you think it's a good idea to buy flowers, jewelry, or other large gifts the dancer is faced with Do I accept this gracefully or do they say they can't?
I won't go in to a ton of details but while at one club in my history I saw a club goer give flowers and the dancer tossed them because she knew she could never take them home or her fiance would have been pissed. It can be hurtful to the Club Goer thinking they had a really good idea but my advice is to ALWAYS Check with the dancer and make sure. Don't rush into anything if you really do have feelings for her and realize that this is her job and she still has another life at home. Other dancer will love the gift and in one case a dancer gave me a Bear to donate to charity because she got so many.
Now for me I am a bit different as you know, I'd rather take the girl shopping and let her pick out something she likes. Flowers are pretty but they die. If you buy a Necklace, Earrings etc you need to make sure that those are her style. That GIANT Bear in the store may look nice but if she doesn't like it or want it Don't get it. Ben Franklin is always a nice gift too even if you bring a twin. I have also been given gifts which at first I thought was odd but then it was pretty cool and to this day I still have one very special gift that I will cherish forever because of the meaning behind it when it was given to me a very long time ago.
Just some friendly advice before the Big Day.
Giving a Dancer a Valentine's Day gift can go so many different ways. What one thing a lot forget or maybe not realize just because they dance for a living that doesn't mean they don't have a husband and/or Boy Friend. Yes some may even have Pimps. While you think it's a good idea to buy flowers, jewelry, or other large gifts the dancer is faced with Do I accept this gracefully or do they say they can't?
I won't go in to a ton of details but while at one club in my history I saw a club goer give flowers and the dancer tossed them because she knew she could never take them home or her fiance would have been pissed. It can be hurtful to the Club Goer thinking they had a really good idea but my advice is to ALWAYS Check with the dancer and make sure. Don't rush into anything if you really do have feelings for her and realize that this is her job and she still has another life at home. Other dancer will love the gift and in one case a dancer gave me a Bear to donate to charity because she got so many.
Now for me I am a bit different as you know, I'd rather take the girl shopping and let her pick out something she likes. Flowers are pretty but they die. If you buy a Necklace, Earrings etc you need to make sure that those are her style. That GIANT Bear in the store may look nice but if she doesn't like it or want it Don't get it. Ben Franklin is always a nice gift too even if you bring a twin. I have also been given gifts which at first I thought was odd but then it was pretty cool and to this day I still have one very special gift that I will cherish forever because of the meaning behind it when it was given to me a very long time ago.
Just some friendly advice before the Big Day.
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SJG
Valentines Day is in February - and this was posted in late March - so it’s not pertinent.
SJG
I have given a few dancers gifts.
In most cases they were a given to dancers I knew moderately well, saw regularly, and personally liked; we had frequent personal conversations that allowed me to give gifts that I knew would be appreciated.
Took a dancer shopping last Xmas.
OTOH, cash is never an appropriate "gift."
And if you are considering giving a gift to any girl that you are goo goo over, especially a working girl who you know nothing about, get help.
The dancers I gave gifts to I considered friends and I knew their personal relationships.
Part of the reason I gave them gifts was to show respect; that they were more to me than just meat for personal gratification.
If your relationship only exists in a strip club - don’t give her a gift.
If your relationship exists outside of the strip club - but any time you are outside of the club - you are paying the dancer to be with you - don’t give her a gift.
In the two above scenarios - you are a PL. The only appropriate gift would be money.
Any relationship imagined in the above scenarios is only in your mind. The dancers relationship is solely with your wallet.
I'd rather spend my big money on actual stripper services.
So does your ATF DS like airheads - or is she one? No offense.
My ATF DS is truly (a big titty) blonde and fits the stereotype perfectly. She is and likes airheads. Soooo hawt!!!
LMAO
SJG
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I don’t recommend getting gifts for strippers. However, if the gift can be gotten at the mini mart on the way to the club - and it’s cheap - that works.
I’ve technically taken strippers on shopping trips - as I’ve stopped at the Gas N Sip on my way to the hotel - and I’ve let the stripper choose a bag of chips - and smokes. I always choose the beer and condoms.