I've been coming here for almost...

I've been coming here for almost 20 years off and on. You might resent the charging for your own booze at first because it is a concept not everyone is familiar with. But believe me, you save a lot of money in the end compared to if you went to a club that served alcohol. There are liquor stores right up the street if you don't prepare in advance. If you plan on making return visits in the near future your best bet is to buy a 1.75 of the booze of your choice and leave it behind the bar. That way you can come back a few times and not have to worry about bringing anything. It would be too good to be true to bring in your booze and just hang out and drink it there for free, wouldn't that be nice!? Spend 9 bucks on a cheap 12 pack and instead of drinking at home go hang out with nude women! That ain't happenin', the establishment has to make some money besides the cut they get from the girls. As for the dances I haven't had one here in a long time but the mileage can vary greatly. Like you said picking and choosing the girl has a lot to do with it. If she seems cold and is in a bitchy mood I'd strongly recommend passing, even if she's the best of the bunch. Usually the hottest girl in the club (not just here, any club) that is cleaning up bringing guys in the back like an assembly line will give the most robotic uninspired dance.