I haven't made up my mind...

I haven't made up my mind about this club yet, after about 6-8 visits over the past year, usually weeknights around 8-10 pm. I like Industrial Strip, and Hollywood Show Club and Roxy's, both in St Louis. My preference is a quiet night, hang out, talk, find a reasonably bright and friendly lady and do an hour in a private room. This club is a bit far for me, living in the city, but it has a full bar, moderate entry fee and drinks, good bartender and waitress service, and doormen who are friendly (sometime a bit pushy, but generally trying to be helpful.) There is a lot of room, and 4-5 different areas of seating, with varying degrees of privacy. On the slightly to moderately negative side are: the stage does not permit much contact (of any type) between patrons and dancers; most dancers don't interact with you even if you sit at the stage for their whole set; many dancers don't seem to work the room except immediately before and after they're on stage; it often seems like there's only a few dancers working; I've sat for an hour and had maybe 1 dancer approach me; lastly, the bouncers working the most private room are pretty pushy for a hefty tip to leave you alone.

So, the club has potential, but maybe I just need to find the right dancer(s) to hang out with. Any recommendations?