I visited Sands most recently on...

I visited Sands most recently on a Friday in the late afternoon / early evening (just around 5).

The place was pretty much as it was on my prior visits, and as others have described it. No-one was on stage. There were 1-2 other guys there that I could see, maybe 1 more in the VIP. The 3-4 dancers there just seemed to be hanging out. One was eating a take-out meal at the bar. Another was playing a game on her iPhone. Another was chatting with bartender. 1-2 more were giving dances in the VIP room, or came in later... not sure which.

I came in, ordered my $10 soda, and sat down, waiting for a dancer to approach. None did. There is definitely NOT aggressive soliciting for dances here. After about 10-15 minutes, the one who had been chatting with the bartender (a tall, amazon blonde who looked to be pushing 40 asked me if I wanted a private). Though I WAS wanting one she just wasn't really my style. Still, not wanting to burn any bridges (in case no-one else came over), I told her I was still chilling out, but asked her to check in with me a bit later.