If you haven't been, this is...

If you haven't been, this is a low-end block club with a long bar running front to back of the room, stage show behind the bar, just enough space to walk along the back of the bar to the bathrooms and a small area with 2-3 barstools where lapdances are done. And an upstairs area I haven't seen, which allegedly costs at least $200 to access.

This was my 2nd trip to Club Harem, but this time was a very different experience. Last time I had the bartender (who looked like former dancer) who was hitting me up for tips constantly (over the course of the night I probably gave her $40) It was a huge turn-off as she was obnoxious about it -- like I was an ***hole for not throwing a $20 at her every 10 minutes, and like I didn't know I was getting rolled as the new guy. This time, however, it was a curmudgeon old white guy who paid no attention to anything, and seemed shocked and appreciative with a $5 tip.

Last time I saw a young, petite, white granola girl from VT who didn't want to do anything more than a lap dance (5 for $60) and was very affectionate but in a dainty, innocent sort of way (who's kidding who, but she was very polite and proper and seemed content to spend the night with me for $60).