Absolutely love the vibe at Mary's. Gone a few times now, always on weekdays/nights, it's a super chill dive bar with one operating stage and usually 3-4 dancers. Nearly all I've met have been friendly and easygoing, low sales pressure, happy to talk if you're not a creep. (Tip them for their time, yo.) Faves include Mickey, Josie, Willow. Private dances are $120 for 3 songs in the back curtained booth, very private, be respectful and communicate and you'll both enjoy the dance.