Visited same dancer as two weeks ago, now codependency risk

Outer Space Club (OSC) is the larger upstairs club at the LaPearl/Outer Space Club complex in West Philly. LaPearl downstairs is like a small neighborhood bar where dancers often provide extreme extras while you sit at the bar. OSC is up the stairs just inside the door and has much more room, including a long wooden bench along the wall, a small bar in the corner, and a VIP room near the bar area.

I'm not a frequent enough visitor to know which club is open on which days - sometimes only one of the two will be open, but I do know that the place is totally dead before 5:00 and barely getting started then. Two weeks ago, I arrived around 6:30 and the place was hopping (I came after an afternoon Phillies game then). This time, I had to get there earlier, and there were only a couple of dancers milling around, but no PLs were getting dances and only two dancers were in stripper outfits. There were probably a dozen older (40s and up) black guys outside, inside, at the bar, hanging out - but without women. Dancers are all WOC in various skin tones and builds, the two I paid enough attention to for description were the one I came to meet (thin, tight butt, shorter hair, B cups that drooped a bit from childbirth) and another sitting at the bar upstairs who had a few extra pounds, but was what I'd call curvy vs. BBBW.

I came again after exchanging numbers with the dancer I met in the previous review. We had an intense but brief meeting then, and I was hoping to repeat that or build upon that. She would text back, but it was clear even from the texts that there was a serious money motivation for her - after all, this is her career, and I accept that. So we agreed to meet at 5:00.