A little too aggressive

So, I waited to go until later evening because it’s open until 4am. I got here about 1040pm. Very interesting that it is BYOB and they smartly have a convenience store on the corner of the building that sells beer, wine, and snacks. After I bought a drink, I paid $15 to get in. The door girl and security guy were really laid back and cool. Once I got inside, I had to walk up some stairs to the club on the second level. The “bar” was on your tight as soon as you walk in and there is a wall that divides the bar from the stage area. The stage area was a little different than most places. It was a decent size staffed right in the middle of the room against the wall with a small sitting area around it. They had a VIP area to the right that was wide open to everyone and hardly felt VIP other than having a dividing bar between the regular seats and that area. All the seating didn’t have backing which is probably smart. It was a very odd layout in general. There was a nice mix of black, white, and Latina women. A girl immediately came up to me when I sat down. A decent looking blonde. We chatted a little bit and it was pleasant but she was typically pushy to get me to go in the back which I reluctantly did because she wasn’t really my type but neither was anyone else in there that night. She told me it was WAY better in the back and that I didn’t want to waste my time with regular dances and that it was $200 for 15 minutes in the back. It was not fun. I put my hands on her knees and she pushed them back to the couch. It was not way better back there. Her dancing was boring and it killed the vibe having to keep my hands on the couch. I can understand not being all feely but I couldn’t touch her at all. Also everyone verbally asked for a tip as though the huge tip jars they had on the counter want a big enough signal. They were asking for it before you could even get the money out to pay for what you were getting. I don’t mind tipping. That’s part of the deal but asking for it while I’m reaching in my pocket is aggressive and offputting. I would say that overall it was a well designed club but the people inside the club are not doing it any favors. It might be better when it’s busy but they are aggressive when it’s not. I usually like to slowly get the vibe of a place and look at the talent. But I was in and out of this place In less than hour which is very unusual for me. Also to only drop about $300 is unusual. I just didn’t feel this place.