I went to Beamers for the...

I went to Beamers for the first time yesterday. Most of the reviews posted here are right on. The girls tend to be very good looking, although only one or two are what I would consider a 9 or 10. I didn't find them as warm and cordial as some say -- maybe 30 seconds of chit chat and then a rather brusk "do you want a lap." Business like but no soft sell.

The atmosphere is relatively upscale -- like a mid market cocktail lounge plus a stage for dancing.

The actual laps are intense, one way contact (man touching the woman) except in k.... area, plus heavy duty publc grinding. The laps are on couches, and the room is shared with 3 or 4 other couples. The overall experience is essentially frustrating since those bikini bottoms are firmly on and there is no manual touching of the man's private parts -- unlike at the more rough and tumble but greater access Harry O's nearby or the places in Bridgeport. The trade off -- much more upscale (if a lap dance bar can ever be truly upscale) and more polished girls than the competition, but much less of an almost complete