Personable Dancers, creepy dude watching the VIP area, top marks!!

I was heading up to Atlantic City from DC area for a bachelor party. Me and my brother were the only two black dudes in the party so we wanted to make sure we hit a black club and got a dose of melanin before we got to Atlantic City (we thought they would only have one flavor at the clubs up there, wrong!). This by far was the weirdest experience I'd had at a strip club by far at the time (may 2019) simply because of the set up. The bar completely surrounds the stage and it's super far so you can't throw money so the girls walk around after their dance to collect tips. Just went to Club Pussy cat in Baltimore today and I think it's a whole trend ( I was clueless). So we get in, order a few drinks, they aren't cheap but not too pricey and a dancer catches my eye as she's leaves the stage (forget her name short, brown skin, thicc, long hair at the time, bright eyes) we chat and she has a great personality, she asks me if I want a private dance, and I agree. They have public private dances and private private dances , she says the private private dance is better if I'm shy, I'm not so she takes me into the back room, past the creepy, pimp looking, dude that acts as a gate keeper . The ROM is full of raggedy ass chairs and smells strongly of fish and open asshole, I stop and think "I'm home!"😂. She sits me down starts to dance a bit, I ask her if it's ok to touch. She's flattered, because I'm a gentleman, asks me the same question and before I know it I'm unzipped and out in the open and she's lotioning up her hands and getting to work. She said for a 40 dollar tip she'd show me some vocal work, but I politely declined as (as I understand it) the house was getting 20 for the dance (per song, TF? Like before me there was this dude and I'm pretty sure he only paid the house and didn't tip the girl, how in the fuck? Some people are so rude), and I was already going to tip 30 instead of the 20 we agreed on and I had a long weekend of gambling and strippers ahead of me. Didn't get to *coughs* share my love of painting with her, but no surprise there as I usually take a while. She walked me out and I have her an assist to my brother😂 were both big fans. All in all the next time I'm in Philly I'll be back. Had a great time, could easily see myself spending 4/500 here in a night easypeasy