Sad one, kinda actually. I don't know why, but generally I find the Toronto dancers to be very "don't touch me" in the way they approach things. Maybe that works for some people, but I mean...in my case I didn't touch anything I shouldn't have, but when I had my hand on her thigh, I got an angry "You're getting too close." I kind of wanted to just say, "Alright, I think we're done here," but instead I just laughed and continued.
I get it, you're not supposed to have anyone touch your vag. If you're really against it though, maybe don't go for dance after dance because really, you're just gonna end up frustrating both of us.