3 trips - same unsatisfying result 3 times

Went 3 Saturday early evenings over an 8 week period.

First trip about 7pm. $5 cover, got a beer at bar and sat at table between the 3 stages. Most of the tables had someone at them Immediately a waitress came by so I ordered food. Two of the stages were always with a girl on it, sometimes a girl would go on the 3rd. Most girls were very attractive and I was walking up to middle stage on most girls and tipping which 2/3rds were pretty friendly. I specifically asked 3 of them to come by when they got off stage. An hour being there - no food (no waitresses came by after the first to ask if I needed a beer / I didn't see the one who took my order after about 1/2 hour) and not a single dancer came by where I was sitting & duplicates were going on stage so I threw in the towel and left

Second trip - tried a little later around 8pm. Paid $5 cover, got a beer at bar and found a table between the left / center stage. Tipped most of the girls on stage and half were very friendly. No waitresses or dancers came by as they all were drawn to 2 tables over a group of about 6 guys ordered a bottle and were pretending to be cool but since they were early 20's - I guess the girls thought they were attracive. After about 40 minutes, I walked over to the bar and asked a waitress just standing there if I was invisible since no waitresses or dancers came over my entire time sitting there. Then I left

Third trip - yesterday about 4pm. No cover, got a beer at bar and sat at table. Place was dead and they were only using middle stage with girl on 2 songs then a song with no one on. Two of the girls asked if I wanted company after they got off stage which I said yes.. First one went to the two Mexicans sitting at the table next to mine and after they gave her nothing - she went into the back. Second one went off stage and sat at the bar. Three songs later, she was still there and the girl on stage wasn't attractive so I left.

End result is - three trips, didn't spend near as much as a I wanted but also didn't have too good of a time. Maybe I will go again and not tip anyone - then I probably will get some action