Good Place to Drink

So no lie, I don't understand why this place is rated so high. First off, apparently reserving a space for ten people, with bottle service (four bottles, we should have been in the VIP section) means a small table near the front doors, without enough space for everyone. I mean this was my birthday party, and my guests didn't have any space.

The dancers were great, though it is pretty awful that their $20 dances are performed on a chair three feet from you, instead of anywhere near you.

On top of that I ordered a body shot for my friend, and the cocktail server refused to do that for a guy, and would only serve it to me. I wouldn't have ordered a body shot if I hadn't seen other waitresses serving them. So why wouldn't she do the same?