I Wasn't Expecting This

I stopped by on a Tuesday afternoon a few weeks ago and, as has been the case just about every time over the past few years, I was less than impressed with the selection of roughly 15 dancers. I got a few dances from Trinity, a relative tall attractive blonde who did a pretty decent job of grinding and was rather friendly which is not always a given in this place. Otherwise the overwhelming majority of the time I spent here was involved in another experience which brings me to my next point...

I was curious to know if anyone on here has had any personal experiences with Alissa the bartender? She is 25, has dark hair, large chest, quite attractive and usually works on Saturdays. She was there when I last visited on a Tuesday, but she said that the days she works during the week varies. Anyway, we spent a lot of time chatting and she seemed to be a lot more mature than her 25 years and we had several things in common despite the age difference (I am 46). Because we were 20 years apart I was not going to ask her for her number, but she took it upon herself to slip me her number on a folded up napkin at one point during the evening. That same night there was another guy there a lot closer to her age who was hitting on her and gave her his number, but she had no interest in him so she showed it to me and then threw it in the garbage. Long story short we spent a few days texting back and forth which is something I absolutely hate because I am not a millenial and can't understand how you can possibly connect on any kind of meaningful level when all you get back from the other person are a bunch of meaningless one-liners, but I was doing my best to accommodate her and play along. She agreed to get together one evening for drinks, but at about 4pm on that day she texted me "I have to work tonight" so I responded that we could do it some other time, but she completely broke off all communication after that and I never heard another word from her.

I apologize for airing my dirty laundry here and I certainly do not want to make more of this than it is, but the whole thing just does not sit well with me. I never pursued her nor asked her for her digits and she comes on like gangbusters early on and then completely brushes me off. I sure as hell don't go into places like this thinking I am going to find a potential date and would have been perfectly happy just leaving it as having had a nice conversation with an attractive young woman and nothing more. I was just wondering if this was some kind of ego boosting game she likes to play if anyone else had the same experience with her or if she just singled me out for whatever reason. Keep this in the backs of your minds if you converse with her and she starts coming on strong. Or maybe you are much more schooled at playing the "game" then I am and you will end up with more from your visit to GGR than you bargained for.