I've been to Elans during the week and don't bother. Only a couple if dancers. Weekends are much different with a good group of dancers to choose from. The place feels comfortable, no mean bouncers bothering you. Like anyplace, there are a mix of women, but on Friday or Saturday, there should be someone to everyone's liking.
Good on weekend, ghost town during week - Review of Elan's of Connecticut • 31 Federal Rd, Danbury, CT 06810, USA* - tuscl