My first time at a strip club

Wife and I decided we wanted to add a little debauchery into our sex lives to spice things up. I have never been to a club before and she had only gone to the male revue at Sugar Shack for a Bachelorette Party. We honestly had no idea what to expect. Did a bunch of research ahead of time about etiquette and expectations because we are nerds.

Walked in and paid the $10 cover and noticed that all of the employees were in black suits and ties including a very militant woman. Mentioned that we were new. Wasn't sure if they were going to give us a tour or send someone our way, but they just led us off to a table in the corner and sat us down. We watched the dancers and soaked in the atmosphere. Nobody came up to us for awhile. Eventually we saw a waitress wandering nearby and we flagged her down to get a drink.

We mentioned to her that we were new and asked if she could send a stripper over to us. One of the girls we had saw that both the wife and I had taken interest in wandered up and took a seat. She was a pretty fun girl. I'd say about a 9/10 in terms of looks. She was very gentle and was a pretty interesting person to talk to. We enjoyed the conversation and it almost bummed me out to interrupt it with various lap dances. She didn't push us at all, but we wanted to make sure we were paying her for her time.