Mixed Bag - Just find the right girl and you're set

I went alone and felt mostly awkward, even with the number of weekend dancers. Drinks were pricey ($6 beer when I get a $6 mixed drink @ Visions), most girls were either rude or not mentally present. I was especially put off when one stopped to say hi to me on stage, asked my name, "Oh, [NAME], I love that! One of my favorites," then doubled-back and started her routine all over again, asking me what my name is. Look, if it's too much for you to handle at that point in he night, don't bother. Skip the script. Unfortunately she was hot so I made the mistake of asking her for a dance after and expecting it.

Some girls are trashy, but most are hot with nice boobs, and some really know how to work the pole so you get a good show. However, no one approached or talked to me at the bar, even if I smiled or nodded at a girl. I figured "whatever, maybe it's me" but I see Indian after Indian guy getting led into the private area, so something must be up. I write this one off as me being a new face or not mastering the etiquette. Eventually that girl from before comes around, makes eye contact, tilts her head and smiles at me, then picks up a random guy out the bro-pileup and whisks him off to the private area, BUMPING MY DRINK in the process.

I was extremely put off, and wandered around awkwardly in search of a pretty girl for a dance. Eventually I found a tall brunette sweetheart chatting with the security detail. She stumbled a bit at first but we laughed it off, I tipped the doorman and she took me way into a back corner, not that I took advantage of that. She gave me a good dance with her underwear still on -- if it were Monday's $50 for 3 dances, I would've taken her up on it. I'll be back to see who's working on that night.