Different than a strip club. In some ways better. In some ways worse.

Lap dancers might let you touch their breasts. Discuss before you pay. Expect to be expected to tip more. I had one lap dance and touched her breasts with advanced permission. I tipped her $5 after the four minute dance and of course she bitched me out for not tipping more.

Private show was uncomfortable because my door (all doors) had their locks disabled. Not only that there was a glass window at face level on the door. People on the outside can look at you through the window while you're watching the show. How awful is that? Sign in the room clusters are in while watching the show said public masterbation was illegal. The club was following the law as appropriate but it made me paranoid that vice cops would enter my private room if I pulled (pun intended) a Peewee Herman.

The girls are there to make money of course. I have no issue with that. It's a shame that you can't "enjoy" yourself without risking severe consequences. I left my trouser snake in my pants the whole time. I'm not going to risk having to register as a sex offender for the rest of my life just because I tried to rub one out during a private show.