First timer

For a first timer seeking more than just a lap dance at Tropical Lei from reading reviews about it. I was able to get exactly what I wanted. Saturday night around midnight I entered the club. As I entered it was a bit packed from the stage floor to the back. I stood there looking where to sit so I went to way back to sit down. Waiter chick comes over and says to pay for the water drink. She served the water drink and i tipped her a few dollars. While still sitting there I was looking at dancers coming out the VIP room and hoping one would approach me.

I get no eye contact from any dancers till this one petite blonde comes over and sits next to me. We talk for a bit and then the waiter comes over again asking to get the dancer a water drink. I get the drink for her and she kindly says thanks. She asked if this is my first time at this club. I say yes and i start asking about the price for a lap dance and what is the vip like. I felt like she wasn't interested in doing a lap dance, so i tired hard to make talk more about the vip room. she kept referring to it will be fun but no details in what fun means. I told her to elaborate a bit more on fun part but she just said you have to find out when we go. From then i stopped talking about that and just had my arm over her waist massaging her thigh. I told her to show me her body so i can see what ill be taking to the vip. she got up and showed her petite body and booty. I took her to the vip room and as i sat down inside one of the rooms she told me a no,no, no, wait! i was confused and she said to get up and wait. she left and came back with a towel or paper towels wiping the seat section in there. as she was doing that i decided to grab her small booty as she was cleaning the seat. she was cleaning it for quite some time possibly enjoying the booty grabs. As she was done she told me to sit and she closed the curtain. She took her top off and thong off. She did an ok lapdance but she was encouraging me to grab her tits but she was a bit flat chested. It felt like a somewhat decent lapdance. i tired roaming to her pussy but she would back way. My time was up I believed because she got off my lap and then said wanna have some fun. i said yes then she asked for money upfront. I gave her the amount she asked for then she told to take off my pants. as a first timer doing this I took off just my pants and my boxers where on and then she looked at me like what i was doing. so i took off my boxers and she puts the condom on my dick. she starts slowly sucking it. then she starts to deep thoart it. after a few minutes of getting my dick sucked she said let's trying fucking. she climbed up top and i stick in her pussy. she rides me for quite some time and then i eventually bust a nut. She said that's it. I went back to sitting floor but i ended up leaving since i got what i wanted. overall experience was a bit awkward at first and ended up leaving happy and was able experience extras for the first time at a strip club.