Long time regular and local but loosing interest

I'm a local and this has been my stop almost daily on my way home from work. (Just discovered this site and decided to post generals) My regular time is in between shifts so it is pretty quiet but I like it that way. 10+ years ago this place was good; a nice local bar feel to it. All sorts of women and experiences to choose from depending who and how much you tip. These days, most of the dancers are way past their prime with a few younger ones mixed in . Some come with bad attitudes. No one really dances on stage anymore... they just stand there swaying back and forth. It is pretty boring. I've made a few "friends" here over the years that could carry on a conversation. They were genuinely interesting women. Most of those women have stopped coming.... which is good for them. These days the girls are either not interested or simply don't speak enough English to do so. Basically, you get the feeling that unless you are willing to head in the back for what they call a "lap dance" (wink-wink), you are wasting their time.

Most of the girls are Brazilian. There is are a few Dominican and Puerto rican mixed in. This used to be a large presence of Russian women too. A few show up once in a while but not regularly. I know a few American women show up some of them are the street type just making ends meet. I like all sorts of women. If any of them go out of their way to make me feel at home and relax, I tip very well. The ones that come up and ask for a tip just for being there I will generally limit my tips. Don't let the tip parade get to you. If a girl comes around often for tips, they are taking advantage of you and make it known. I also tip well if the dancer actually makes an attempt on stage. Of course I also tip well on the rare occasions that I do head to back room for private dance.

Speaking of private dance. Sucks that you have to flag down a bartender for a ticket. That absolutely sucks and I get the bartenders don't like the extra hassle. You can all thank a former bouncer caught skimming off the top for that... The back area is nothing more than a cubicles with chairs. Pretty unclean if you know what I mean. But hey... whatever. As for the private lapdance experience, your mileage may vary... depending on the chosen girl and how deep your pockets. I don't do lap dances often but I do reserve the dances I do buy for a select girl or two that know me over the years. The dances are best when they know you.