Confusing place

I have not been in this club for about a year or so. The place remains essentially the same with a main center stage except now the dancers do not enter from above but come from the DJ booth and climb up a small step ladder. They have added a number of flat screen TV's to the place which is a good thing. I went for a lunch show and arrived around 12:10 and a dancer was already on stage. The shows run continuously during the lunch hour and slow to a show every half hour around 1:30 or so. Since I do not live there I did not realize you can reserve seats (call ahead) around the stage. The reason I mention this I was seating in a reserved seat. No problem I just moved. I did not inquire if there is a charge. The draft beer is $6.50. Every noon hour one of the dancers does a shower show, so if you enjoy this there is at least one per lunch hour.

The reason I found it confusing was the private dance. The DJ kept talking about getting a private dance upstairs but not being from there I had no idea where upstairs was or what the protocol was. The dancers do not walk around but sit in a bunch texting on their phones. In my experience in Ontario and Alberta dancers mingle with the customers to show their availability, If they sit away from the customers on their phones it means they are not available. I would have tried to go upstairs if I knew where it was. The last time I was there the dancers came around. I did not know the cost per dance so I was also hesitant because last time it was very pricey. I remember it to be $50 a dance. Could a regular from this club please enlighten the members on my above questions? I would go back but I would like a little more information on the above concerns.