Errrr...not the best time...

So, though i have had a lot of fun at this club a few years back, lately it has been rather mechanical. Certainly there are some nice gals there, but my last outing i felt I was sort of ripped off by one of the gals. It seems now chatting in the back (at least with this one gal) counts as a 'dance' much to my surprise...when one asks "so, we are starting the next song, right?" and are told "oh, this is your dance" you know something is very wrong. I'm not new to the scene or the club -- but this type of behavior just isn't cool.