Haven't been here for a while....

Haven't been here for a while. They lost quite a few dancers last year. I got an OK dance from a Latina, had a few beers and some decent conversation with another broad then left.

I'm writing this because I still haven't cracked the code of hot dancers. There was a solid 9 who has a Alexis Texas type ass, very rare for any Chicago club. I made eye contact with her a few times, did not stare or act like a creep, and still got blown off. What am I supposed to do? Stare at her like I'm a bitch at some crappy singles bar? Ignore her completely and cross my fingers that she comes by me? I detest this stupid stripper etiquette. Anyway I'm tired of leaving places like this, all pissed off and wondering what I did "wrong".