I visited the "BabbI" a few...

I visited the "BabbI" a few weeks ago on a Saturday night. There were some decent looking dancers there for a change. More than I usually see. I sat at the bar and was approached by a 6ish looking dancer..not bad since there was only a couple other dancers better than her that night. On a side note, I want to go back to see this hot busty thicker type blonde girl...( I didn't cross her path to get VIPs...). I couldn't stop checking her out!

Back to the story , this dancer and I talked. She presented the VIP sales pitch and it is a good deal. 3 songs for 45 still as it has been for years. However, I declined and said I would join her on the stage to tip her. This is when she got mad...never seen a dancer do this. I got the "well why are you here? why do guys go to clubs not to spend money etc etc etc." Not cool. I was never a jerk to her. She then said well can you buy me a drink, do you smoke (she wanted a cig), etc. I don't. Man. I know these girls want to make money but it's my choice to spend it whenever wherever I gave her some bills at the stage too like I said was going to. Maybe she was having a bad night, but any kind of service industry, it doesn't do anyone any good. Really didnt get a thank you for the drink either.

Manners even if they are kind of fake go a long way. My declining this nighte because I just wanted to chill and wait for the other girls could have turned into a yes the next time I show up...that is how dancers and service ppl should think. Jerks do show up and nobody should be pushed around of course. I get it.