I visited this club six times...

I visited this club six times in the last three weeks because I'm addicted to my current favorite there (pm me for details). I've been coming to the Harem about twice a month since January 2014 though. As the last two reviewers indicated, they are now following Ohio's no smoking laws. As many who are familiar with the Harem, Friday and Saturday nights (well most nights really) after 10 pm were nearly unbearable when it came to the dense smoke, so this is a welcome change. My three visits in the last week where on Saturday, Sunday & Monday (I know, I have a problem if I hit the club three days in a row) and my clothes had the wonderful scent of a dancer's perfume, not smoke, when I got home. If you do want to smoke, they have this horrible room upstairs...just go past the bar and men's rest room on the right side of the club and go up the stairs...the room is straight ahead upstairs (the glass-enclosed champagne rooms are to your right). There is a shitty ventilation fan, two shitty chairs, some ledges for drinks and for some reason a fake fireplace for ambiance.<br>

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Don't be too alarmed if the Sheriff is out front, they have been coming into the club to get a free look at the ladies and my guess to monitor the smoking and dancer/customer interactions upstairs. I haven't seen the cops there after midnight, but they probably monitor TUSCL, so who knows when they will show up next time. Regardless, I've been enjoying my time with my current favorite immensely. And here is the great part, she doesn't count songs (or loses track of high numbers). The Harem has always been a great value, they don't cut songs and most dancers will do 2 for $25 or 4 for $40 lap dances. Of course, the Harem has the worst lap dance room in Dayton...homemade wood benches with worn out padding...I often get a bruise on my upper back from the benches and high mileage dances. Initially, I counted songs and one time I was up to 11 and she said it was 8 for $80. Another time I lost track of songs, but I was getting incredible lap dances (basically heavy gfe and riding me until sore) for 60 minutes...she said it was $120. My current favorite is notoriously late, so she got to the club about 1:30 am Sunday evening/Monday morning. We chatted at the bar, went back to the lap dance room a little before 2 am and then closed the place down at 3:15 am...total charge was $140 + tip. My favorite says she doesn't do this for everyone (right...), but she kisses my ears and neck, gives those subtle little moans that turns me on, gives amazing deep french kisses, stands up in front of my face and pulls her panties to the side to show me her amazing pussy and rub it on my face, doesn't wear those damn band-aid pasties while we are doing lap dancers to give me full access to her nipples and let's me suck on them to my hearts content (I'm always her first dance of the night, so I don't worry about another poor loser getting there before me), does stick shifting over the pants, does mouth over pants with purring/blowing, puts her hand in my pants and gives a nice hand job (not to completion, but the view of her looking up at me and the eye contact is incredible when she has that sly smile on her face), rides my hand as I rub her clit until she gets so wet that she needs my middle finger to get her off (nice FIV and she "said" she got off) and this is all in the downstairs lap dance room (her favorite part of the room is the far back corner on the right). Yes, bouncers do make the rounds through the room, so I can't imagine anyone actually getting a true bbbj...at least I haven't myself, but anything is possible. I suppose you can easily get lucky in the upstairs VIP couch area ($50 for 1 hour plus whatever you negotiate with the dancer starting at $100) or the upstairs champagne rooms ($150 for 1 hour plus dancer fee...perhaps you still have to buy a bottle though...not cheap), but I haven't done either of those yet. I'll report back when I do.<br>

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By the way, I think dancer quality is improving slightly. It is always somewhat hit or miss at the Harem and you have to be very selective of the girls you let sit with you...some just aren't worth it. Just politely send them away by saying you are waiting for another dancer. They will leave you alone no hassles. I've enjoyed a few dances with a skinny blonde named Brittany (she is a very cute 24yo and usually has something in her hair) and another young redhead with gorgeous eyes that I think was named Rachel or something. Plus there are a number of hot blondes...Daisy, Summer, Jen, and Sky that I've had my eye on...no dances from them yet.