Headed to Club Sesso last night...

Headed to Club Sesso last night clearly understanding that this was a swingers club and not a strip club just to check it out. I was really looking fwd to seeing this place but as my two other guy friends arrived, the lady at the counter asked if we were new and understand that this is a private club. She also went on to say that they have already reached their limit of only 10 single males a night and that the earliest we can get in is Weds night ( I'm leaving Portland Tuesday). She did say if were a couple we can get in still. I'm guessing she's trying to gauge if we were gay. I guess we could've lied to try to get in but we didn't want to be escorted to a gay area of the club. Oh well, highly disappointed but I can understand they want to encourage swinging couples so that there's active participation and sharing instead of having three singles guys ogle at everyone doing the deed. Maybe I can check this place out next time with a female friend. Unsure if I know of any that will go if they know of this clubs reputation.