I've been to Goldfingers a couple...

I've been to Goldfingers a couple times in my three years in San Diego and would say it's probably the best option available. I've never had any problems with the bouncers/club staff, but I was also stone sober going there since it's a bit of a drive from the Mission Valley/beaches area. The "bar" is right when you walk in, but you won't be able to get an alcoholic drink since it's a fully nude club. The bartenders are attentive and the waitresses are good about checking in to see if you need anything. There are a few seating areas removed from the stage, but for the most part there are just two semi-circle rows around stage, good views all around. I've heard this place gets crowded on military pay days, but everytime I've gone (always a Thursday to Saturday night), it's been pretty empty.

That's a good and bad thing. You'll have NO problem at all getting a lap dance from your choice of girls, but you'll also be hounded incessantly by every stripper not on stage at the time. Most of them are super friendly, but I have encountered a handful that get annoyed if you don't want a dance from them. After each goes on stage, they'll come around asking for $1 - standard for San Diego. If you get a dance, definitely get the VIP dance or whatever they're calling it. The regular "lap dance" is an air dance - they'll dance naked for you from 5 ft away. Not worth the $20 when you basically get the same thing watching them on stage. The VIP dance is I think $120 for 5 songs and they grind up on you. The girls here are hands down the hottest I've seen at San Diego strip clubs. Good mix of real boobs and fake boobs, a few strippers have tats but its not too many. Basically whatever you want, there's something here that'll work for you. As far as San Diego clubs go, this is the best.