This was my first time at...

This was my first time at a strip club. I went with 1 other friend. We went late on Sunday night. The club itself isn't discreet at all - it has bright lights and is on a busy street. It isn't hard to blend in though as the parking lot seems to always be full and it's next to a shopping center. The cover charge was $20. Afterwards, the doorman gave us a VIP card that reduces the cover charge to $10 until August of next year. Still, it was pretty excessive. 2 drinks are included but they're non-alcoholic. There weren't very many patrons inside and one of the girls said it was pretty typical for a late Sunday night. There were a few couples and some older guys. Everyone kept to themselves. The club seemed a tad small but it wasn't crowded or anything. As you enter the stage is to your right, the bar just ahead, and lapdance rooms at the far end and to the right. It's somewhat dark inside but not to the point that you can't see. It was clean inside so I didn't feel like I would stumble upon cocaine or anything. There were plenty of girls hanging out and they would constantly change the girls dancing. The DJ wasn't annoying and the girls danced for 2 songs before they walked around asking for tips.

There were lots of white girls there - blondes and brunettes. A couple Asian ones and a Latina. Some were tatted up, others had just a few, others had none at all. I didn't have any problems telling girls I wasn't watching their show and didn't wanna tip them but my friend did while I was getting a dance. A girl gave him attitude saying "you're sitting in front of the stage and didn't watch? Okay." He was sitting at the wall, not right next to the stage, and he was talking to another girl at the time. I thought having girls sitting with us would prevent the dancers coming up for tips but that wasn't the case. One of the first girls who came to sit down with us was really friendly and nice. She explained how everything works and she seemed genuinely interested in talking to us. Even though it's all for the money I prefer that than girls making small talk for 20 seconds and then asking if we want a dance, which happened with quite a few other girls. The dances cost $20 for a non-nude, single song. $100 for 5 songs, nude. And the "ice box" which I think was $350 but I can't remember for how long. I had the friendly girl give me the standard dance which was in a big room that other people will also go to. There's a bouncer right outside but he didn't seem to be overly attentive. I then got the $100 VIP dance. These are in a row of booths facing each other but no one seemed to really pay attention to anyone else. There are signs in each booth that remind you not to touch the girls but it seems like the girls themselves don't care about that, but how far it goes depends on the girl. My girl grabbed my hands and had me touch her all over. She was pretty hands-on herself grabbing and rubbing me. The bouncer walked down the rows once in the 10-15 minutes we were there so it seems like they don't mind either. My friend said his girl was touchy with her chest but not much else, so how intense it gets will vary. In the lounge, some girls have a hard time accepting no when they ask to give you a lapdance. One was getting to the point where she was a bit pushy and others left after the first "no." I was done spending money while my friend was getting a dance so I went to the bar next door. You get a stamp for re-entry privileges but every time I came back in another girl would immediately ask for a dance. So the pushiness and attitudes of the girl will vary as well but it was overall an enjoyable experience with the right girl. You just have to have a bit of luck finding her. My advice - if a girl talks about more than just "your plans for the night" before asking for a dance, she might be worth it.