I stopped going to this club...

I stopped going to this club because the quality of the girls started to decline, it was never very busy and the floor guys watched everything that was done during a lap dance, limiting contact so that the dances were not very much fun (air dances) apparently to promote vips. I think a better way to promote vips is to make the floor dances enticing so that you want more... a vip! Instead I went to the L & L University for a few visits and had a reasonably good experience with the last time I was there having a girl giving lap dances with pretty extensive contact( boobs ass etc.) contact that she promoted and there was no floor guy interventions.

However recently I found myself in a situation where I only had time to go to L&L in Gastonia or nowhere and had a somewhat better experience. As has been the case for the last few times I had been there the bulk of the girls are never the same from time to time so when you go its always like starting over... a few girls in the 7-8 range with most being 6s...with most of the newbs giving pretty lame air dances however there was one girl that sat with me and gave me some nice lap dances with much (seemingly encouraged) nipple contact (which I like) so she was the highlight of my evening. Also it seems that they have a new dj and floor guy who does not seem as restrictive. They also announced a 2 for $30 vip special(usually $20 each) which I may have done except that when I asked another girl why it was better than the floor dance her response was lame and made it sound like a higher priced floor/air dance. I probably should have tried for a vip with the girl I liked. If I am paying 3 or 4 times more for a vip than a floor dance I feel it should be that much better(more contact ,exposure etc.).

I have changed my strategy when visiting now such that I start with a mindset to do only one floor dance with a girl and if it is a lame air dance I do no more with that dancer in the hopes of finding one that will be more to my liking. I am at a disadvantage since I am an older guy but I try to not look or smell bad so as to try to not turn the girls off but but with the constant turnover of girls it is hard to get any consistency there anymore, but at least the floor guys seem somewhat more relaxed than before. YMMV!